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Kate Gosselin will be going on DWTS soon. And Kate refuses to change her custody arrangements. So, while Kate is out in CA months on end, the nannies will continue to watch the kids. (Nothing new here, Kate is never with her kids, unless she's taking them out for a photo-op).
But, when it is Jon's custody day and he is with the kids. Kate has a few rules for him. (Again, treating him like a little 7 year old).
1) No friends. (Because Kate has no friends, Jon too must not allow any friends over). Unless it's a paid TLC employee.
2) No pictures. (How dare Jon be in the pictures with the kids smiling while I'm out on tour). This will make me look like an unfit mother. So no pictures.
Then the "insider" claims it's not like the kids are going to miss him? LOL! Really? That the most ridiculous statement from Team Kate. We already know how much the kids love and miss Jon. We see it every time he is with them. There are hundreds of photos of the kids running to Jon to hug and kiss him. There's even videos of it. NONE OF KATE.
This is why Kate has the rules in place. To protect her Image. It's all about Image when it comes to a narcissist. Kate doesn't want friends over because they will be a witness to how much the kids miss Jon. Kate doesn't want any photos taken because the kids will look happy when they are with him.
Those rules are not to PROTECT the kids. They are to protect Kate's image while she is GONE for months on end to promote her lame book.
So what is the problem with Jon being with the kids when Kate is on her book tour? It's all about image. The image of the kids being happy with Jon doesn't sit to well with this fucking douche of a mother. And this little article is just damage control for Kate. To bad it's doing the opposite.
38 comments:
Great insight, Jibber Jabbers!
Love your website.
It makes my stomach turn to read this and see once again how cruel Kate is. She will do anything to spite Jon even if in doing so it's the worst thing she could do for the kids. And sadly, this same selfishness between divorcing parents happens over and over again.
If the kids haven't seen Jon for so long, then why not change the custody arrangements so that they will get to see him more often while she is on tour?
Answer that sheeple.
Pictures of Jon at the house with the kids. Jon brought his friends the paparazzi with him. It looks like the paparazzi are on the property. Kind of blows your tabloid lies to pieces dosn't it.
Glad to see that one of the parent is actually spending time with the kids. And not taking them out of school to do a photo-op.
And it still looks like the paps are behind the fence, not on the property.
Kate must be FUMING. How dare he spends time with the kids. They don't even want to sit next to me. LOL
Yeah, I guess if spending 1 day a month is really parenting. I doubt Kate is fuming she is to busy making money to support the kids. LOL the kids are ignoring Jon and not standing very close in all the pictures, probably smells like cigarette smoke and Morgan's stale perfume.
I say B.S. to this story, as usual. The custody arrangement has already been worked out and agreed upon. If Kate wants to change the "rules" she will have to go back to the court and have them reworked. Kate, as much as she would like to think so, does not make the rules - she does not have legal custody of the children.
KATE MEETS A REAL MAN!!!!!!!http://www.limelife.com/blog-entry/Kate-Gosselins-New-Love-Interest/34719.html
Kids are ignoring Jon? I have a video of the kids refusing to allow Kate to sit next to them.
You're suddenly a photo analyst all of a sudden? LOL.
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Kate can make any ridiculous claims and rules all she wants. No one is going to take her narcissistic disorder seriously.
How do you know Jon only spends a day a month with the kids? Because ROL/TLC tells you that? LOL - please, help yourself, and use the brain God gave you, instead of repeating, ad nauseum, the crap written on a tabloid gossip site.
And how doe she / he knows that Kate spends any time with the kids? Just because she lives in the same mansion, doesn't mean anything. Remember the back to school episode? Kate flipped out after going into Mady and Cara's room for the first time in MONTHS, and saw that it was a mess.
I just love the way Kate's love struck fans talk about her and her life as if they are privy to all inside information about her. Kind of creepy really.
And "cigarette smoke and stale perfume"? What the hell does that have to do with anything. There's nothing worse than using idiotic dribble to try and make an argument. I'm guessing if Kate knew you were cheering for her in this way she would want you to switch to team Jon. Sorry if this is offensive, but it's the nicest way I know how to put it.
You're suddenly a photo analyst all of a sudden? LOL.
I trained under Dr. Lillian Glass.
It's obvious the kids were busy playing. Unlike the video, where it shows the kids saying Kate, NO, don't sit next to me.
Sorry if this is offensive, but it's the nicest way I know how to put it.
No offense. I come here with the knowledge that what I am reading is idiotic dribble and this site never fails to amuse or deliver.
I didn't know since Jon bargained his kids away that there was still a Team Jon. Kate dosn't need me to defend her. In fact Kate does not need defending at all. She is succeeding new book, tv appearances and a new show and Jon comes to her house to shovel the snow. Maybe she will be kind to him and offer him a job doing yardwork for her this summer. I am sure she can afford him.
Doesn't matter if there's a team Jon or not. What matters are the kids. And if you consider this site idiotic dribble, you've really dummed yourself down haven't you? Why would you do that? Or maybe, depending on where you're coming from, you've significantly improved your lot by absorbing all this knowledge. Now, I'm done playing with you so scoot along to your next amusement. You really are quite boring. No Offense.
Bashing Jon for doing yard work and allowing the kids to play outside? Is that the best you can do?
If it was up to Kate, the kids would be locked up in the basement and only allowed to come out to film.
If you're going to attack Jon do a better job at it. Pick on something that matters. Like selling out his kids so TLC and Kate can continue to exploit the 8 kids. Or how he continues to keep that idiot lawyer of his. etc etc.
What a freaking tool. The both of them. Jon and Kate. They truly are meant for each other.
One thing I learned in debate class was that when your opponet can't defend their position they attack you. ITATK you keep worrying about offending me.
Don't. LOL
Anonymous said...
One thing I learned in debate class was that when your opponet can't defend their position they attack you. ITATK you keep worrying about offending me.
Don't. LOL
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So now you reveal your true self and motives. How old are you? You're just here for the debate and the win. It has nothing to do with Jon and Kate, or the kids.
I've wasted my time on you. Bu-bye
I've wasted my time on you. Bu-bye
SCORE!! Looks like I won! lol I'll just scoot on outta here.
Tah-tah!
No wonder the sheeple can only attack Jon by calling him a loser, fat, bald, etc etc..
At least when I attack Kate, I provide reasons to back it up. Unless I state the obvious like calling her a bitch or douche. That's common knowledge when it comes to her characteristics.
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You won? Really? Is your life that meaningless that you get off by lying to yourself that you won at something?
I love when the sheep think they "won" something. They are so superior to those of us that criticize their queen that they believe by "LEAVING" that they proved something to us.
Sorry "anonymous" -- there are legions of people who think Kate is a bad mother, TLC owns her and that Jon, as stupid, horny and naive as he is, is still the BETTER PARENT.
The Kate fans all whine that we are hurting the kids by criticizing their mother. So What. The kids are hurt by their mother every single day. If someday the kids find the posts about people being concerned about their well-being, they might realize that they WERE exploited and maybe the will sue the pants off TLC.
Yesterday I was out with my child and he was ALL OVER ME, ALL day. I don't think he went a minute without touching me. It was a little annoying but then I remembered that Kate never gets to be annoyed from too much close time with one of her kids. She's annoyed by their mere presence. I don't think her kids would feel comfortable climbing all over her, touching her neck, wiping noses on her sleeves, whatever . . . it's all part of being a mom and she's missing it. Being annoyed by a child is a blessing. Maybe annoy isn't the right word but a child will only hang on "mommy" for so many years. She never let it happen and that is just very sad for everybody.
Kate doing media interviews = success? LOL.
Jon was doing the same til TLC put a stop to it. Why? Because Jon is actually more likable.
Compare Kate on the View to Jon on The Insider. Jon did a lot better on The Insider than Kate did on the View. Kate barely said a word. She looked lost and out of place. And the Paula Dean show Kate auditioned for. Kate was dropped because of all the re-shoots and editing the producers had to do because of all the ums and uhs Kate was dishing out.
And this isn't a Team Jon site. It use to be til he sold out his kids.
Kate's new book? LOL If it's anything like Eight Little Piles, (the only book she wrote). (copy and pasted) It won't bring her any success.
Sounds like Kate is trying to alienate the Gosselin 8 from Jon!? Look up "parental alienation." Kate fits the bill. Jon should petition the court to change the visitation schedule. Jon can petition the court to have Kate submit her tour schedule and request an increase in his visitation if she is away from the children.
As for the anonymous posting about Jon's visits with the Gosselin 8, how would you know if & when he visited? Are you privy to insider information? TLC has carefully orchestrated Kate's photo ops with the kids so the Kate lovers will continue to support her heinous. Jon & Kate, their lawyers, Kate's staff, TLC are the only ones privy to the visitation schedule. Are you one of the select few?
As for Kate's real man, HA, HA, HA!! Where's the photos of Kate with Bernie Nowotarski? He would be crazy to hook up with Kate. He's too busy with his own life - 5 kids, coaching, community. Now lets see if Kate will try to alienate him from his kids, family & community...ain't gonna happen. Bernie's appears to be committed to his family & job.
Abusers usually take steps to isolate their victims. They may try to control the victim's telephone usage, interfere in the victim's relationships with friends and family. "They believe that they own the victim and are entitled to his/her exclusive attention and absolute obedience."
TLC doesn't want any unauthorized pictures of their 8 little commodities to hit the market, because it would devalue TLC's.
Kate's worker bees are angry at Jon because he doesn't have to do her grunt work any more, while they are working overtime trying to get love for her.
Kate used to say the kids missed Jon. If the kids have adjusted to Jon not being there, wouldn't they also have adjusted to their mom's absences? Kate thinks not:
Kate admits that her kids are "acting out," but she's hoping it's just a phase...As for her ex, she says, "They miss him. They say they miss him. I imagine they say the same thing when I'm away."
http://www.ivillage.com/kate-gosselin-says-kids-are-struggling/1-a-59772?par=ivillage:entertainment:outbrain
Can't have it both ways.
Anonymous said...
"...in debate...when your opponet can't defend their position they attack you."
That assertion is not true. Somebody didn't pay attention in debate class! Not that it would have mattered much; you could have memorized the entire textbook backward and forward, and you still wouldn't know how to reason.
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"ITATK you keep worrying about offending me. Don't. LOL"
I suppose that, to you, anything would be better than being in that head of yours alone. And your friends at KadarOnline can only help so much, since you all have the same problems. I think you have a higher IQ than a few of them, but all of you overestimate yourselves. You may have scooted out of here last night feeling supreme, but today, make sure that you realize you're an asshat.
I worry about the parental alienation aspect too. I think Kate is working hard to get complete control of those kids; first, for the dollars they make for her and second, for the all
American mom image. She's got Jon out of the house, now she's working on getting him out of their lives. If Kate's family isn't working behind the scenes to protect those kids, they should be.
As far as the new possible boyfriend, the jock. Well, let's hope the relationship comes with the bodyguard because if they thought there was fighting before, they ain't seen nuthin' yet. I can't imagine football coach and subservient in the same sentence. JMO
The kids are way too attached to Jon and Kate wants to do everything possible to alienate her kids from Jon.
Kate is a manipulator and a narcissist. The kids are in danger when Kate is with them. Good thing the nannies care for the kids and Kate is busy pretending to be a celebrity.
We have to worry when TLC drops Kate. That's when Kate will have all the free time in the world to harass her kids and yell at them because she had to sacrifice her 30's for them.
JJsFan said...
The Kate fans all whine that we are hurting the kids by criticizing their mother. So What. The kids are hurt by their mother every single day. If someday the kids find the posts about people being concerned about their well-being, they might realize that they WERE exploited and maybe the will sue the pants off TLC.
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Ah yes, another fine "child advocate" heard from. I love the "so what" followed by the maybe they'll realize they were exploited because strangers on the Internet say so. In other words, maybe they won't have a negative impression of their childhood but we'll show them "the truth" and make them feel differently. It's the worst nightmare of you and your ilk that these kids might actually not grow up hating and resenting their mother. How truly pathetic.
Kate doesn't get a long with her own parents, so it's no surprise that the kids do not get along with Kate Gosselin. She was gone for month on ends to promote her book, and Jon was at home filming and the kids didn't miss Kate at all.
Jon was thoughtful enough to record the daily activities for Kate while she was away.
Episode "mommy for a day" I believe.
Narcissists are parasites. Their condition is normally fed by enablers, persons naturally predisposed to being helpful and nurturing (bewares, Hannah) and who often spent their childhood learning how to be enablers.
It is a given that, if an enabler is separated from a narcissist by uncontrollable circumstances, (s)he will find another narcissist to enable. This is a factor in a well-established pattern in spousal abuse, in which the battered partner, freed from one abuser, quickly finds a replacement.
Narcissists also need a proper climate in order to thrive. Outward appearances that the narcissist is being enabled will not do, since this will cause the narcissist to appear weak and needy.
The enabler is not "helping" the narcissist in any meaningful way, quite the reverse. Narcissists can be dangerous, and if their enablers cannot or will not escape, the danger only increases.
Look at the smiles on the kids face when Jon was there to pick them up. This is why Kate hates it when Jon is there. She knows and the entire country knows, that the kids are more closer to Jon than they are to Kate.
Looks like that idiot "insider" speaking on behalf of Kate was just a troll. "It's not like the kids miss him". Yeah, look at the smile on their face.
The article should read. "it's not like the kids are going to miss Kate. They're use to her leaving and prancing around the country for months on end.
JJ said
Looks like that idiot "insider" speaking on behalf of Kate was just a troll.
This probably the most honest thing you have said. There is no proof Kate said this.
So what is the problem with Jon being with the kids when Kate is on her book tour?
What makes you think he wants to be there? It seems that Jon prefers living the jetset life than being a parent.
Glad to see that one of the parent is actually spending time with the kids. And not taking them out of school to do a photo-op.
Don't the tups only go a few days a week? Do you have their school district calendar? Do you know which days of the week they go to school and what time they get out? Do you have proof she "took them out of school.?" Of course you don't. You are just spewing rumors and speculation.
Kate doesn't get a long with her own parents, so it's no surprise that the kids do not get along with Kate Gosselin.
You don't have any proof she doesn't get along with her parents. Just more rumors and inuendos.
Geez, anonymous, you sure are on this blog a lot. Stalker much?
Geez Dunwoody Mom you're on this site alot. Stalker Much?
Do you really think there is only one person named annonymous?
I guess when someone makes a sound argument...this is your reply.
Typical Creeple reaction
LOL - you haven't made a "sound" argument yet.
Kate the ALIENator!
Alienate Jon from his family, because the Gosselins might take attention away from her Heinous.
Alienate Gosselin 8 from the Kreider clan because "they don't know how to help (Kate's words).
Alienate Gosselin 8 from Aunt Jodi because TLC offered Aunt Jodi compensation and "nobody is going to make $$$ off of my kids (except myself & Jon). AND Aunty Jodi was a fun, loving mommy figure to ALL the kids.
Alienate best friend who helped with the 1st book, Beth was the true author AND everyone knows it.
Alienate anyone and everyone who is NOT a YES person.
I'm sure there's more so please feel free to add to the ALIENator's list...because it's all about her!!
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